Having high standards and expectations may be well and good but when the person you are being the most harsh with and the most critical is yourself it can lead to many damaging consequences. As you go through life you will do many things, some will be trivial like getting coffee, some more significant like…
We all know someone who is fiercely competitive don’t we? That guy who always has to be first in everything, from card and board games, to getting into the bar first. It’s get’s a bit grating to be around guys like this. So what you you are that guy? “Is it so bad?” you might…
We all associate anger with bullies and people who are less able to get their point across without the use of violence. Anger can be brought about for a variety of reasons. Anger is usually projected outward at another individual but the underlying reason is usually with the angry person themselves and not the recipient…
For most of us whether we are in high flying jobs or not there are people who naturally shine and take the glory and those who don’t Being noticed for your efforts is often reward itself but when you feel overlooked and unseen it can make you feel undervalued. To really become more visible, really…
When it comes to taking on more responsibility in life we need to be able to adopt a more mature outlook. It does not necessarily mean we have to behave like we are 90 but it does mean we need to leave most (but not all) of our young and childish ways behind. The way…
We tell lies everyday. We tell ourselves it’s for a good reason and we have done it so often now that it has become socially acceptable. It’s not just verbal lies that we tell. We also lie with actions, more commonly known as deceit. We also lie by omission. Many of us now use another…
When it comes to being content with what comes your way, do you automatically think “wow, that’s awesome!” Or is it more like “Is that it?” If it’s the first one then you are already doing well but if it’s the second one then you need to really read this article and reshape you you…
These days we are always in a rush. It may be because houses are expensive so we live far from work. It could be that we work long hours so we don’t have enough free time so we try to cram in as much as possible. Whatever the reasons are it’s definitely getting worse and…
The first thing the socialists and feminists will be screaming when they read the title is “TOXIC!!!! No to toxic masculinity!!!!! Everything is toxic!!!!!” But is it? I mean really? Is it? The easy and honest answer to this is no, it’s not. Why? Being a man is not about running around abusing everyone and…
Rather than just jump on the bandwagon with a list of 20, no wait, 30! no, 50 things that are so amazing you may soil yourself I thought I would just be a bit more honest and focused. Spoiler alert, Sudoku is not the thrill-seeking, white knuckle, balls to the wall, underwear-soiling game of death…